I am Jake’s mom, and the founder of Jake’s Mission. Today is my birthday and I am missing Jacob very much. In years past, my happiest moments were when my children were gathered around me. I always felt that was the greatest gift anyone could receive, to be surrounded by the children she loves more than life itself.
Janet, Joy, Jacob (far right), Jonathan
I had a great “reunion” with Jacob’s best friend’s mom, Gerry Perry. We sat out by the pool, under crisp clear blue skies, and chatted about our sons. We laughed and we cried. Life does go on. And yes, Jacob is in a beautiful place where there is no more sorrow, pain, or suffering. No more doctors or hospitals. Just glory!
Today I received a gift from my son in heaven. As I was going through my “special keepsake” box, I came across a birthday message Jacob wrote to me on my last birthday with him. We had no idea at the time it would be his last. It was my 50th birthday and the family had surprised me with a beautiful Baby Grand Piano and a very special video of my life done by my oldest daughter Joy. I can still remember the look on Jacob’s face when I walked through the front door of our home and saw that piano, something I had been dreaming of wanting since I was a little girl. Jake was more excited than even I was. He had always wanted to learn to play. Jacob didn’t often write me notes, but for this birthday he did. I believe this is a gift I was given to see me through all the birthdays to come. I have chosen to share it with you today in the hopes that if you need to tell someone you love them, appreciate them, or you need to forgive or be forgiven, do so. You never know if you will get another chance. Life is precious, today is all we’re guaranteed. Here is a glimpse of who Jacob was….
“March 25, 2007
Mom,
What an incredible journey we’ve had through this thing we call life after watching that video Joy made and remembering all the memories we’ve had. I always remember the times we traveled up to the mountains and all the memories we have to cherish for years to come. Every once and a while I find myself looking back wishing I could just go back and do it over again. You are the one who has always been there for me and helped me through the hard times, remembering those times of going to the doctor’s office when I was really young here in Naples and they would have to get blood from me but they would have to get like three people to hold me down. Everything we have gone through has made me who I am today and given me the strength. I don’t know where I would be without you. I really am not good with this kind of stuff. I love you and know that we will have many more memories to come.
Love,
Jake”
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God Bless You. Thank you for making today special for all of us here at Jake’s Mission.
